04 March, 2009

the Changing Face of Love


People come into your lives for many different reasons… and sometimes they have to leave. Some of these people create within us intense emotions; these people are immediately or at times over time placed on a pedestal. Love is definitely a complex emotion, and I personally believe that once we love someone, that we never truly stop loving them. I have been told by many different people with many different situations that I am wrong, but in each case I have been able to make my case and have them leave the conversation thinking… Love never ends, it only changes forms… now you may never want to see someone ever again, for whatever reason... but somewhere buried deep inside you is still a little bit of the love that once dominated the relationship. It never will cease to fully exist, it will always be there to remind you of what was once were, and what in most cases may never be again. The trick to this knowledge is accepting, and moving forward… there are more people for you to meet, and more people to place on a pedestal, someone will eventually prove themselves worthy of your love, and they will hopefully in turn place you on a pedestal… and send you love equally in turn.

3 comments:

String said...

Funny, was just having a conversation about this with a friend last night! I think within perhaps a seed...of old loves, but for me, not much more because the reason we are not together is the reason there is now a seed and not a flower!

Mel said...

Things change, people leave, love remains.

Well said, sir.

Unknown said...

That is what people usually say String, and I agree. But it is there no matter what, and seeds may never grow...