23 March, 2017

Debbie



How can you say goodbye to someone that meant the world to you?
If you figure this out, please let me know.

Debbie was my best friend, there is no doubt to that.  She came into my life so suddenly at the end of a chapter.  We were a family, she guided me and listened when I needed it most.  I will never forget our many adventures and the things we saw together.  Everything from spontaneous trips down the trace to sitting at 10 pm on the reservoir looking at the moon in a telescope.   We were there for one another for many years.  When circumstances forced her to leave Mississippi, Debbie pushed me to do the same.  I don’t know that I would have without her support and urging.  Even when life finally did separate us she was there for me and I was there for her too.   I was there when she passed, I don’t know why it happened the way it did… I never will understand it.  The night before there was no warning, we talked and things were like it used to be… and then she was gone.   Things happen that we can never understand and I know that I am very blessed to have had her in my life.  I there isn’t a day where I do not think of her, my heart will forever be missing a piece.   Miss you, Debbie.

November 15, 1965 – March 15, 2007

Deborah Emiline Reeder Smith, 51, of Panama City, FL passed away suddenly on Wednesday, March 15, 2017.  She was born on November 15, 1965 in Natchez, MS.  Debbie was employed as a Human Resource Director with Community Based Options in Panama City.  She was a Bay County resident since moving here from Brandon, MS around 6 years ago.

Debbie had a passion for crafts, loved to paint and cook.  She was GG to her grandson Brantley whom she loved unconditionally and who brought unlimited joy into her life.

She is preceded in death by her father, Joseph Steven “Steve” Reeder.

Debbie is survived by her daughter, Samantha Smith; a grandson, Brantley Farkash; her mother, Judy Reeder; her sister, Stephanie Glidden (Eric); a brother, Joey Reeder; a niece, Kaitlin Gordon; a nephew, Will Reeder; and her special friends, Sundei Granberg, Grant Blakeney, Sue Nester, and Donna “DJ” Heaton.

A celebration of her life will be conducted at 11:00 A.M. on Saturday, March 18, 2017 at Southerland Family Funeral Home Chapel.  The family will receive friends beginning at 10:00 A.M. until service time.